Crush the Fears Stopping You From Going After That New Job

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Are you currently struggling with a job search? Are fear and anxiety holding you back? Tools like positive affirmation cards help you shift your thinking and break through your inner obstacles. There is power in the words you choose, and that power can influence your life.

Recognizing and Overcoming Job Search Anxiety

The story we tell ourselves can have a direct effect on our lives. Does any of the following sound familiar?

  • Are you hesitant to reach out to your network because you feel like you aren't good enough?
  • Do you tell yourself people won't want to help you?
  • Do you not apply to jobs you want just because you don't have ALL the listed qualifications?
  • Do you ask — Is anxiety stopping me from getting a job?
  • Do you find excuses not to apply to jobs that you think you would enjoy?
  • Are you afraid to go after the job you want because of opinions and pressure from others?
  • Are you staying in your current job because it is familiar, even though you are unhappy?
  • Do you feel stuck in a less-than-perfect job situation?
  • Do you think — I can't find a job and I'm depressed — do you feel like giving up?

If you can relate to any of these situations, it could be that your words and mindset are limiting your opportunities.

What Effect Can Your Words Have

The language you use when speaking with others or having internal conversations with yourself can directly impact what happens to you. For example, if you tell yourself, "I can't do this" or "I am never going to find a job," it can cause what some people refer to as a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you see the world around you as bad, it is terrible. If you see the world around you as good, it is more likely to be good.


You might think, how am I supposed to be positive when things keep going wrong, I feel anxious, or stuck. It takes time to change your mindset, but it is possible, and using positive affirmations can help. Affirmations are positive statements that you can use to triumph over a negative attitude.


Positive affirmations seem to some people to be too simple to make a difference, but the fact is that science provides evidence that practicing self-affirmations can improve your life. For example, scientific research suggests that self-affirmation changes the way your brain responds to stressful situations. By changing your response, you can often control the outcome of a situation.

Pushing Through Job Search Depression

If you've been looking for a job for a while, you can get discouraged or even depressed. However, a strong sense of self-worth and a positive outlook can help give you the strength to hold out for a more suitable position, rather than taking the first opportunity that comes along. Gaining confidence through self-affirmation results in feeling more personal control over finding work. This can help you to push through any disappointment you might feel from your job search. It can also help you to hold out for what you want, rather than jumping on the first job offer that comes your way.


When job hunting, even reading the job descriptions can sometimes give you job search anxiety, much less applying or interviewing. It can seem like the qualifications required for even entry-level jobs are out of reach or extensive. The job market and the roles available change so rapidly that even experienced workers often feel this way. Changing your outlook can help in this situation as well.


If you change the way you look at job descriptions, from viewing them as requirements to more of a wish list, it becomes easier to apply for positions you may not fully qualify for. Telling yourself, I can do this job, rather than, I don't have all the qualifications, so I won't bother applying, is one example of how this can increase your chances of landing a job. Having the confidence to apply for jobs you think you can do even when you don't tick all the boxes is one way to increase your chances of landing a job. However, first, you have to have the self-esteem and resiliency to go for it regardless of the results.

Overcome Your Disappointments

It is normal to feel disappointed when you don't hear back after applying to numerous places or think you've aced an interview, only to have the potential employer ghost you. During a job search, this can happen repeatedly. How to handle disappointment? Especially if it has been going on for some time? How do you keep going through tough times?


A job search can be a frustrating experience, but it can also be an opportunity.


The universe doesn't always give you what you want, but sometimes there is something better in store, the timing isn't right yet, or there is a lesson to learn. Often we see things that don't go our way as missed opportunities, but maybe this isn't always the case. "If I didn't get this job, it must be because there is something more out there for me" is a more positive way to see the situation. If you can adjust your mindset, even disappointing experiences become learning opportunities rather than doing well or poorly. When things don't go as planned, it is an opportunity to learn to be more resilient or cope with uncertainty.

Self-Esteem Affirmations Ease Your Anxiety

Using daily intention cards as part of your routine can help you to change you to overcome your anxiety and self-limiting beliefs. You can make positivity your default setting by replacing any doubts or lack of confidence with optimistic thoughts. By focusing on opportunities and solutions, instead of obstacles, you will notice that you start to feel calm and control your job search.

Discover Your Inner Strength

Often in life, there are things you want that can seem out of reach. However, a simple shift in thinking can be the difference between reaching your goals or staying stuck.


You can develop the confidence and resilience to move forward, get un-stuck, and attract new opportunities.


It is one thing for people to say, change your words and mindset, but it is another thing to do it. Positive affirmation is a practical tool that can make it easier to set your default setting to optimism.


When you build a solid foundation of confidence and positive self-worth, you gain a renewable source of internal energy and motivation to keep going, keep trying and keep moving forward no matter what obstacles stand in your way.


The reason self-affirmation works is that it exercises your positive mental muscles. Just as working out gives you more energy physically, repeating positive words can fill your mental energy tank from empty to full.


You wouldn't expect a six-pack from one session in the weight room, and you can't expect to become confident overnight from one session of positive affirmation. Just like physical exercise, mental work can take commitment and repetition. However, just like with physical activity, you will improve if you keep practicing and showing up.

If you're reluctant to go after your next job because of anxiety, Press Reset Affirmation cards can help you get over the hurdles and pursue your ambition.

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